FormSpring Question: Relationships!

I have a Formspring account and I was asked a "weird" question today. So the question was: 


"If a guys cries in front of you, because you had hurt him, what does it mean?" 


The reason why I think this question is weird is because, never ever have I considered myself good in relationships. In fact, I don't think I'm quite good at it. But then again, since I've been asked, I might as well answer it properly. But before I get sued or whatever:

DISCLAIMER: All thoughts poured out here are of my own opinions. It is based on personal experiences and no thorough research has been done on this issue. Therefore, do not hold on to my advises and then sue me later, ok? :P 


So, back to the question. If you have hurt a guy somehow, and he cries? I can come up with a few reasons:

• He really is hurt. No explanation needed. 
• He trusted you, and you broke his heart. This could only mean one thing, he will never trust you in the same way he ever did. 
• He has lost all hope on you. Again, no explanation needed.

If it's the first option, there are certain things you can do to "brighten his day". The best thing is to take him on a date, like how he would to you. Just basically "manja" him, but don't overdo it. Just make him realize that you really care about him, and apologize a million times until he accepts it and forgets the whole thing. Secret? They will never forget what you did. 

If it's the 2nd option, your relationship won't last very long. Because no relationship will last without trust. Trust is a HUGE part of your relationship. It takes a lot of work to trust someone, and sometimes, you may never ever trust someone. This goes to show that you're not with the right person yet. Or at least that's what I think. 

If it's the 3rd option, again, your relationship wouldn't last. I mean, ask yourself. Why would a guy be with someone whom he has lost hope on? And I would agree with him. 

Personally, the right way to feel about a guy, and a guy about a girl, should be that, "I can live just as happily as I can without him, I just choose not to". 

Again, I am not a professional and I believe that everyone has their soulmate. Every one has to find the wrong person, to know that they've found the right one. This is my personal motto. Please do not hold on to every word I say and then sue me after that. The disclaimer is up there. READ IT!

I also believe that everyone deserves to be in love, and stay in love. SPREAD THE LOVE! <3 

Love, Sheryl1986 <3